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On the next page (shown below), there will be a variety of filter options for you to choose from.Once you have chosen your filters, click the Change Preferences button.Mail filters allow you to limit what types of members can send you any type of message on Mingle2.To set these filters, click the Mail tab followed by the Filters link. The easiest way to see other online people is to go to the Search tab.If a user is online, you'll see an 'ONLINE NOW' image just to the right of his or her user name.Or, the member may not have time to talk and, therefore, refused your request.In either case, you might want to try again at another time…or find another member to chat with.
Clicking this link will block the member who sent the nudge.
There will be a button of a circle with a line through it (i.e., the "no" symbol) at the upper right of the IM window which says "block", if you mouse over it.
You can also block a member if he or she has nudged you.
To unblock a user, click the Mail tab followed by the Blocked Users link.
On the next page, you'll see a list of the members you have blocked, if any.